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Find Your Family’s Rhythm

  • Writer: Mary Kerwin
    Mary Kerwin
  • Apr 15
  • 2 min read

Stop trying to dance to someone else's beat!

dance to your beat
dance to your beat

Ever feel like you’re drowning in a sea of parenting advice that doesn’t actually apply to your real life? Most of us have. Between well-meaning family members, endless blogs, and social media gurus, it’s easy to feel like everyone knows the “right” way to parent.

But here’s the thing:

Not all advice fits your unique situation.

Parenting doesn’t come with a one-size-fits-all manual. What works for one family might not work for yours, and that’s perfectly fine. Instead of stressing over what everyone else is doing, it’s time to stop the overwhelm and start trusting your instincts.


Why Trusting Your Gut Matters

You are your child’s best teacher. No one knows your little one like you do. Your intuition is a powerful tool that can guide you to what works for your family. When you trust yourself, you’ll find solutions that actually fit – no need to follow someone else’s checklist.

Every family has its own rhythm. So, if a piece of advice doesn’t feel right for you, it’s okay to leave it behind. Focus on what feels authentic to you, whether it’s creating a bedtime routine that works for your child or responding to a tantrum in a way that feels nurturing.


How to Overcome the Overwhelm

Here’s how you can start trusting yourself more:

  1. Cut out the noise: Unfollow accounts or unsubscribe from newsletters that overwhelm you. Focus on what truly resonates with you.

  2. Tune into your child: Pay attention to what works for them and what doesn’t. You know your child best.

  3. Give yourself grace: Perfection doesn’t exist in parenting. Don’t stress if everything doesn’t go according to plan.


The Bottom Line

You don’t need to follow every piece of parenting advice out there. Trust yourself. You’ve got this. Your instincts will guide you, and with a little self-trust, you’ll find your way through the chaos – one step at a time.



And, if you need some help finding or trusting that gut, schedule a call.


 
 
 

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